How to Love Women: A Black Woman’s Reflection is an honest and unfiltered transcript drawn from a powerful voice note by Bess Obarotimi. In it, she reflects on the meaning of sisterhood, the challenges of female friendships, and the complexities of loving Black women in a world shaped by rivalry, colourism, and mistrust.

Through deeply personal stories of friendship, loss, and growth, Bess explores what it means to seek authentic sisterhood, the kind where you can be vulnerable, raw, and real. This is not a “how-to” manual, but a candid set of Black feminism reflections that will resonate with women who have struggled to find or maintain true bonds with other women.

Whether you’re exploring how to love women, Black women and sisterhood, or simply your own journey of friendship, this transcript offers thought-provoking insights and real experiences that challenge us to love more deeply, without fear or suspicion.

This product includes the full transcript of the voice note, formatted into a clean, easy-to-read document.