People love the quote, they love the motivation talks, they love the reels. All of that. But a lot of people are still stuck in their lives, and either they don’t know it or they’re not willing to admit it. They’ve got problems. They’re overwhelmed. They’re repeating the same patterns. They feel unfulfilled, they’re sad, and miserable but they still think that because they like the content, they’re changing. Inspiration is not the same as transformation. Liking a quote doesn’t mean you’ve done the inner work.

And let me be honest with you, the inner work is tough. It’s long. It’s uncomfortable, painful, even lonely. Incredibly lonely, confusing at times. But you will feel different. The old you will disappear. The same spaces and places won’t be able to contain you. You won’t fit in and you won’t want to either. You’ll discover the real you beneath all the conforming and conditioning, and eventually your outer life begins to shift and match who you’re becoming.

The biggest mistake people make with spiritual success work is that they think it’s easy. They think it’s overnight. They think agreement equals change. You can agree with all the ideas, all the quotes, all the sermons you can even feel them really deeply, you can say, oh, this is so true for me. It’s so uplifting. But if your life remains the same, if you don’t have peace, if you’re still worrying, experiencing fear, the slightest of doubt, never tasted real lasting joy, your circumstances are still the same. Then you’ve got a ton of work to do. Change does not happen at the information stage. It happens at the level of identity.

A transformation must occur and you’ve got to be willing to drop what you think you know, willing to say you want more, willing to say you want better for yourself. And there is something more. And when you’re doing the inner work, you’ve got to sit long enough with the reflections. You’ve got to allow the new identity to anchor. You’ve got to let it settle in within your soul. We’ve got to become a new you. The old ways will pass. That’s how manifestation becomes real. If you’re reading I Am Success, don’t just understand it or agree with it or like it. Practice it, live it, let it transform you. Let it help you become the real highest version of you.

Every time you say an I am statement, understand that you are transforming and it won’t be visibly instant. But you’re making choices every day to build a life of greatness. Some days will be incredibly hard, but you have to make up your mind to keep going until your spirit, your soul, and your mind are rewired. That’s when you stop living as an ego centred person, and you become someone who is led by inner power. Spiritually, truthfully, fearlessly.

And if you are ready to actually do the work, not just listen, not just note or write the content, but truly do the work, I’m opening Conversations with Bess. It’s a deep session. If you sense that this is for you and you’re ready to admit what’s really going on inside. The link will be below on my socials and on my website. BessObarotimi.com